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Jennifer Dulski

Your Best IC Shouldn’t Have to Become a Manager to Keep Growing

The top seller gets the sales team. The strongest engineer gets the engineers. Neither of them gets a manual. A few months later, the first-time manager is struggling, and leadership reaches the usual verdict: great individual contributor, bad manager.

Nobody asked whether they wanted the job. Management was the next rung on the ladder, so they said yes. It isn’t the only ladder anymore.

Jennifer Dulski is founder and CEO of Rising Team, which builds AI tools for managers. She has spent more than 25 years in tech, including leadership roles at Yahoo and Facebook, and she teaches at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business.

Her argument is that the people who never wanted to manage shouldn’t be stuck climbing that ladder, and the ones who do want the job deserve the kind of support that used to stop at the executive floor. Companies end up with fewer managers, and the ones who remain choose the role.

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The First-Time Manager Problem Starts at the Promotion

The Peter Principle put a name to this in 1969, and companies kept promoting people the same way for another half century. In plenty of functions, people moved into management because they were good at their function, whether or not they wanted to lead anyone.

“Some of those people never wanted to be managers in the first place, but that was the only way to grow their career, and that’s no longer true,” Jennifer says.

Rising Team has a way to spot the difference. Its assessment maps each person’s natural talents on a spider chart, and one of those talents, Cultivate, is the pull toward helping people grow and bringing teams together. Jennifer says anyone who has it, from any function, can be a great manager. For people who score at the bottom, the outlook is different.

“If that’s all the way in for you, then you’re never going to love being a manager. You’re just not. And that’s okay,” she says.

That last line gives a lot of strong ICs permission they’ve never been offered, and it spares their would-be teams a reluctant boss.

Executive Coaching Never Made It Down the Org Chart

Fit only explains part of it. When I asked Jennifer whether the brilliant IC who flames out as a manager lacked the desire or the support, she wouldn’t pick one.

“Yes, both are true,” she says. Even people with real ability struggle without help. She figures she was a better parent to her second child than her first for the same reason.

As a division leader running teams of hundreds or thousands of people, Jennifer had executive coaches. Her managers had nothing comparable, and they kept coming to her saying, “Help, I need help.”

So she brought in an outside consultant for a big offsite. It was great for a day or two. Then everyone went back to their day jobs, and nothing carried forward.

“I describe it like being taught to fish and then having to go back to the lake with a binder,” Jennifer says. Cohort training has the same flaw. Teach a room of swimmers, cyclists and runners the same lesson, and it lands for about a third of them.

Management training has been budgeted as a one-time purchase for years, even though new managers need help on an ordinary Tuesday. Nobody learns how to be a better manager from a binder. “There’s no excuse for that anymore, because it is incredibly affordable to support them,” Jennifer says.

New managers always needed it most.

Fewer Managers Could Mean Better Ones

Jennifer doesn’t sugarcoat the market. It’s tough, and it’s a hard time to look for work. She sees part of that as temporary, with many companies hiring back into different kinds of roles.

But fewer managers isn’t only a headcount story. For a lot of strong individual contributors, it’s a way out of a job they never asked for.

The managers who remain are getting bigger teams. Jennifer used to recommend no more than seven direct reports. Now she works with companies where managers have 10 or 20. She calls them super managers, and says AI tools are what make that span workable.

As AI absorbs administrative work, managers get time back for what she calls the three Cs: clarify, coach and connect.

That’s a demanding job, and one more reason to fill it with people who want it.

Jennifer frames Rising Team’s vision around the people on the other side of the org chart, a workforce that feels “deeply understood, supported.” That depends on who gets promoted, and what happens on their first day.

The great IC can turn the promotion down and keep growing. The one who says yes gets more than a manual. And their team finally gets a manager who wanted the job.

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